We’re Debt Free!!!

This post is a little late. By a little, I mean nearly 2 years.  We reached our goal May 2018. I remember the day so well, it was late when we made the call. The last payment to my student loan company.  I don’t recall the exact amount but I do remember the glorious feeling when she said “Congratulations you have paid off your student loan!”.  It was amazing.  Our long journey, completed, one month before I turned 31. I was officially debt free by 30.

So why didn’t I post?  Why didn’t I scream it from the rooftops?  We had a lot going on at the time.  My dad was diagnosed with cancer the same month.  At the time, it was hard to understand that just when things should have been easier, we were faced with this terrifying news. He underwent treatments over the next year and was soon in “remission”. Even though that year was hard on him, and me, we made it through. I am thankful that because of our journey I was able to focus solely on him and didn’t have to fear missing work, or a payment.  I learned that being out of debt didn’t mean you were free from trials.  It simply made those times less stressful.

We have went through many trials since then.  In fact, 2019 proved to be a tough year for us all.  I honestly feel that now that we are “financially stable”, God has placed new areas of my life in the spotlight, showing me things I need to work on.  I am a planner by nature and God’s plan and my plan didn’t match up.  The plan every second and every dollar Emily, was thrown into a whirl wind of unpredictability and adventure.  I am still paddling here in the seas of precariousness, but I am learning to lean on him with every wave. He got us here, and he has a plan for what’s next. Bring on 2020!

 

Into the New Year!

Well 2017 is definitely gone, bringing all the dreams and promises of a new year.  Topping our list of goals this year is  getting out of consumer debt.  We didn’t hit our mark, to completely be out of debt by the new year, but we hope to hit it before my birthday!  We started this year with about 16,000 in student loan debt.  We have been pretty aggressive selling the boat and working a ton of overtime.  As of March 1st, we owe a little over 5,000.

The decision to sell the boat was a tough one!  We really enjoyed our weekends on the lake, and we know that we will want to replace it.  But stretching out Baby Step 2 another 6 months was not worth it to us.  We wanted something faster and bigger anyways, so that will be on the list in the next year or two to purchase.

Getting this close to being out of debt brings up so many fun ideas for the next year.  There are several improvements we need to make to the house, so after saving our 3-6 month emergency fund, we will cash flow those.  It is so unbelievably freeing to be this close to our goal.  I can’t explain the feeling, but I highly recommend it!

How is your debt journey going? I would love to hear from you!  What lessons have you learned along the way?  I know I have learned that sometimes we need to take a step down off the gazelle train and live a little. There were several times we just needed to breathe, to spend quality time together. As long as you budget and don’t increase your debt during those times you need a break,  you’ll be just fine!

The gift they NEED to get.

I was once told that when you give someone a gift, you shouldn’t buy something they “need”.  Gifts should be fun, something you wouldn’t splurge on yourself…

I strongly disagree.

Sometimes, people don’t realize they need something, until they are gifted it.  For instance, my aunt bought me some knives as a housewarming gift.  I didn’t have any idea how bad I needed these knives.  I was making do without them, but as I look back over the last 5 years, I realize she knew I needed them.  They make life so much easier! Who wants to spend an extra 15 minutes cutting veggies with a cheap dull knife?  And now, I think of her every time I cut potatoes!

These are the kind of gifts I like to give, something that will leave a long impression, and hopefully improve someone’s lifestyle.  It’s wedding and graduation season, and people are spending a ton on gifts.  Personalized this and that, much of which will be stored in a memory box, and possibly never ever used. I love these gifts, but many times they won’t get used.

So how do we avoid this?  Let me tell you, if I could give every new couple, and new graduate some really good advice, I would tell them about living debt free.  I might buy them the Total Money Makeover book, and stick some cash inside (just in case they read it).   I would explain how fast life happens, how easily most people get in over their heads, and how we lose our sense of financial responsibility the first time we test drive a new car, or go house hunting!  Can you imagine how far ahead we would be if we had learned this way of life upon graduation?  Or at the beginning of our marriage?

Your gift could really change their lives! They are starting with a fresh slate (usually).  Maybe they will never be in debt because of you, able to invest and travel as they please. Or maybe they will spend a year or two paying of their student loans, and then never owe anyone anything again!  Maybe your gift will allow them to pay cash for their first home, or car, or even an adoption!  Being free from the chains of debt can really open someone up to a world of possibilities, and it is possible.

If you are searching for the perfect gift this season, check out The Total Money Makeover: Classic Edition: A Proven Plan for Financial Fitness.  You might change someones life!

Goodbye April, did we make it rain?

So that is a really corny title, I know. It’s also pretty late at night when I am finally getting to write this post, so bear with me.  It’s also a tad less goofy than the first few titles that came to mind…

Anyways, the results for April are in! Drum roll please… We surpassed our goal! We needed to make up for a few shorter months, so it was such a blessing to be able to scrape that together!  I am literally so ready to jump to the end of May, all I can think about is paying off this van, and boat season! Speaking of the boat, we are still needing some repairs, but until May is over, that’s on the back burner.

This month has been full of hard work and sacrifice.  I literally feel like the most terrible friend! We haven’t had time to do any extras, and barely maintain the things we need to do.  So to all my friends out there, I apologize.  Our lives are so busy and crazy during this stage of life, it’s hard to find time for each other, but I am thankful for the time we do get!

Now I will focus my energy on finishing up the kid’s school year, testing, and getting rid of this van payment.  How did your April go?  Are you making progress?  I hope no ones “raining” on your parade.  If so, grab hold of the “rains”, your future depends on it!

 

The Beauty in The Feast

Working like crazy this month has got me wanting to eat out!  That is not in the budget guys! I find myself contemplating it, especially on those late nights packed with activities with the kids.  I have been able to resist so far, and here is how…

Keeping easy options on hand

It’s a lot less tempting to spend a ton eating out if you have easy things to fix at home.  Pizza, cold meat sandwiches, chili dogs.  I would say I plan easy meals like this at least twice a week, and if I don’t use them, no big deal.

Keep snacks in your car

I am always grabbing some bananas or granola bars on my way out the door. I have even been known to have a pack of waters in the back, just in case.  Kids will be kids, and you don’t want to be 20 minutes from home with 3 hungry kiddos.

Keep your eyes on the prize

When your hangry, nothing else matters.  Sometimes I have to eat a snack, turn on a finance podcast, and reconsider.  No loaded stromboli or milkshake is going to taste as sweet as total debt freedom.

Reflect on success

Look at how far you’ve come! It’s too late to turn back now.  Even if you have only started, making the commitment to becoming debt free is serious business.  Now you can say you know better, and a little planning ahead will keep you on track!

March Madness

March has been a crazy month so far! We have been working our tails off trying to milk this 3 paycheck month, evidenced by my lack of blog posts. This week I have had a little break, but so far all I have accomplished is a lot of laundry.  I want everyone to know I am still here and cheering you on.  I think about everyone else who shares this dream with me, the sacrifices they are making, and how sweet total debt freedom is going to taste to us all! Soon…very soon!

We celebrated Abram’s birthday this past weekend.  I had planned to have a big party at the local bounce house, but what started as a dinner ( We always have a special dinner, the kids choice, and homemade cake the day of their actual birthday), grew into a great party with family.  It was absolutely perfect. It was nice for everyone to be able to come last minute!

This week we will spend time with friends, and focus on homeschool.  I am hoping for a warm weekend so we can kick back and watch the kids play outside. I hope you are having a good week!  What do you have planned? How are you taking advantage of the extra paycheck this month?

GIVEAWAY TIME!!

THE WINNER IS:

Jessica Howell

To celebrate a full month of blogging I am giving away my own copy of Total Money Makeover!

This book was life changing for me and I can not wait to share it with whoever wins!

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Winner will be chosen March 31st! Good luck!